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I am Not the Lesbian Police, if you say you are a Lesbian, well then I guess you are, even if you are the only one who thinks you are, and your Out about it, then are you still not an Out Lesbian?
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I am not going to call all your friends, check your underwear drawer or interview your lovers to make sure you Really are a Lesbian. If I find something interesting online and if you say your a lesbian, well I may just feature you here on Out Lesbian.
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This blog is not to filter, judge or define what a Lesbian is. It is not about agreeing or disagreeing with ALL content online that is written by the person I feature, nor is it to judge their Political Opinion, it is about "Common Ground".
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I spoke with Wife tonight of "Hersband and Wife"and she did not like me featuring "Comic Mom", she said they would not be posting, at least for awhile because they did not wanted to be "associated" with this "scary shit".
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She said they made an "executive decision" tonight that they cannot be anywhere near that "scary shit".
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I understand, and I am glad this happened now instead of down the road. There is no way I can control ALL the content and ads on all my sites. I have opened this blog to other writers, and I encourage all different kinds of political beliefs. To say you don't want to be associated because of a Post I made about one woman, is Very Scary to me. I work very hard, we keep our sites up on our own, and we are on top of our market.
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I want all different writers on my blog with all different opinions, some will be for Lesbian Marriage, some may not, some may even call themselves a Lesbian and be married to a man. If diversity is scary to you folks then don't be a part of the Out Lesbian Network. I am not hear to judge my writers, not here to be judged on who I choose to feature.
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I get enough negativity and tearing down as it is, I don't want it from the very lesbians I am here to empower.
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We have made an "executive decision" to remove Hersband and Wife from our site. I wish them well, however, I will not judge other Lesbian that have different political beliefs then I. I had promoted Hersband and Wife without judgement, and yet they judged me promoting others, well I am strong enough in my belief system to say No Way to that.
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Wife said they cannot be anywhere near that crazy shit, yet when I asked if she wanted removed she said no, so which is it? Many people will be on this site, musicians, healers, lesbian communities, travel companies, and well many Out Lesbian "stuff" most of which I find and post, and I cannot be open to debate about every thing I post. Obviously I had a reason to feature this woman and if Hersband and Wife have an attitude toward me because of it then so be it.
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They claim to be open minded, but have an attitude about me discussing this on MY BLOG. It is open for discussion they could have commented or did a post about it, but instead they want me to call them so they can tell me they have made and "executive decision" to not be associated and did not want me to worry if they did not post for awhile, but the truth is they don't post often anyway.
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Awhile back Hersband and Wife "Friended" me on Facebook, it was a pivotal moment for me, as in my video at this link
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So I came out with thousands of websites, I put my entire Internet Marketing Network OUT there, and came out to all my old friends and classmates all in one swoop by friending Hersband and Wife on Facebook.
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Hersband and Wife had No identify factor, no real town or even state and were not on Facebook as their Real Identity. I understand why they need to Hide, per say, however in this they are not Really Out Lesbians, I Friended them and stuck my neck out, when they are no really even OUT…
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They were removed from Facebook because they are not really out, they did not use their real names and were removed, after all I went through. Everyone who friended them were automatically OUT, their logo outed them.
I kind of changed my whole life, my whole Internet Marketing Network to honor Hersband and Wife, because I felt if I did not accept their “Friend Request” on Facebook then I was denying my own life and relationship. And then facebook removed them.
Hersband and Wife do Not Approve of my Post about Comic Mom. That is there right, however, the Post stays. If you call yourself an Out Lesbian, if you Identify as a Lesbian, then I am not here to Judge You, I am here to Provide Common Ground and to Promote Out Lesbians not tell them whether they are really a Lesbian or Not.
If Comic Mom wants to be married to a Man for her children and create that family unit and be with woman and call herself a Lesbian, who am I to say that is wrong. If I judge her and her "Lesbianism" then I am open to someone judging me and that is not what the Out Lesbian Network is about.
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Sorry to anyone offended by my Post about the Lesbian Mom Married to a Man, oh well, start your own blog and Rant about what is wrong with her there. I connect with things other then simply being a Lesbian, one of my passions is Alternative Medicine and the Lies that the Medical Cartel Tells, this is how I stumpled upon Comic Mom, I do NOT need to agree with everyone I post about. And it is shocking to think that anyone would even question me on it. And funny but Alternative Cancer Treatments, and my research on this topic as is what I was doing when I stumbled upon Comic Mom, is MORE important to me then Letting the World know I am a Lesbian and Standing in the Political Fight of that. Lesbians are more then Just Lesbians.
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It may ruffle some feathers but I do certainly do not agree with everything Hersband and Wife is all about, yet I promoted them.
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I cannot possibly know the private lives of everyone I post about. I am not here to Judge anyone, if you consider yourself a Lesbian, an Out Lesbian then I am certainly not here to tell you that your not really a Lesbian. I am sorry if I am Not Politically Correct to some folks,.
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Again, I am Not the Lesbian Police, if you Call yourself a Lesbian, I am not hear to Judge you, if I trip over your website and identify with something or want to feature you then I do.
I mean No Offense to Hersband and Wife and I wish them Well in All they do, however, I cannot have a writer on my blog that is going to judge every post, and call me out because of some political or personal belief of someone I feature. That is not what the Out Lesbian Network is about.
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I simply cannot be "Affiliated" with that kind of judgemental attitude, and we open our blog for FREE for others to self promote, we are number one for Out Lesbian and we do this to honor - to build up the Lesbian Community and NOT to tear it down in ANY way.
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We are about Empowerment and Common Ground.
rGood Luck to those of you out there fighting on the front lines of Lesbian Politics and what it means to you, the more power to you, that’s not me.
I wanted Comments on the blog, but a phone call to see why I posted this link, why I featured this woman, questions - like an introgations, I am not open to that.
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I am not trying to be negative but the thing is Hersband in Wife is Not really Out Lesbians, they don’t Stand Out with their real names as I do, nor as the woman I featured does. I understand why Hersband and Wife need to hide and I get the threats and pressure they are under, I have many of my own, and I am Out there by name.
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If I Judge Others, I am asking to be Judged.
rIf I Judge Others, I am asking to be Judged.
I am in No Way saying that I Agree with every thought or belief that people I feature on my blog have. It is not why I am here. Some Lesbians are not fighting for Marriage Rights… So What… those who fight for Lesbian Marriage Rights, Great, but if your fighting for rights and for the right to choose then why deny others to choose what they want to believe at the same time?
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Not all Lesbians Need to be Married in the Traditional Institution of “Marriage” - I am not on OutLesbian.com to judge what you believe about marriage, and I am not here to critisize lesbians. If you call yourself a Lesbian then so be it.
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We all make personal choices, we can choose
Love and Tolerance over Hate and Judgement.
rWe all make personal choices, we can choose
Love and Tolerance over Hate and Judgement.
I stand in the White Light and I am here for the Greater Good. Comic Mom has some interesting topics, some valuable information and I will NOT dismiss her because she identifies with being a Lesbian, though she is married to a man... that's not me.r
I guess the thought of avoiding Lesbian Drama with
the Out Lesbian Network was simply to much to ask for.
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So Be it. I know My Truth.
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